We’ve said it till you drop: the clitoris is the key to female pleasure. Not the only one, of course, but the most important, just like the penis for men . It has a chapel, a foreskin, a cavernous body and 8,000 nerve endings. Not touching it is equivalent to not touching the penis and not refusing cunnilingus is like refusing fellatio, also because they both suck, kiss and lick each other in the same way. In short, clitoris is the new penis, welcome to the era of clitocentrism .
Clitoris: what science thinks about it
Clitoral orgasm is the most common
95% of women have it, but the percentage drops to 70% if it is achieved by stimulating it directly with fingers, tongue or sex toys.
The distance between the clitoris and the vagina plays an important role
Sexologist Lisa Hochberger corroborates research that “women who have a clitoris closer to their vaginal opening have a greater chance of reaching orgasm than those with a greater distance.” The ideal distance? One inch.
Clitoral orgasm can last up to 30 seconds
According to research, clitoral orgasms can last anywhere from 10 to 30 seconds, with a worldwide average of 20 seconds. Slightly longer, therefore, than the vaginal one which on average lasts 10.
The number of contractions is always changing
Orgasm occurs through involuntary contractions of the uterus and vagina, which tighten and relax. While the average orgasm can lead to 3 or 5 contractions, a very strong orgasm can lead to 10-15. Wow.
Size matters
According to a 2014 study that scanned the pelvic area of 30 women with an MRI scan, those with a smaller clitoris are less likely to cum than those with a larger clitoris. When they say that size matters.
The “hypersensitive” clitoris does not exist
When we say “I don’t like being touched directly because my clitoris is sensitive,” it’s actually a mistake. The clitoris has 8000 nerve endings that we activate, from time to time, some more, some less, with the “strength” of the brain. In short, the sense of annoyance, unless it has actually been rubbed too much, would depend on how well-disposed we are. Our sexologist Anna Zanellato then recommends protecting it with her foreskin – yes, it also has the clitoris – so that it isn’t completely exposed. Or forget it, the doctor didn’t order it!
The best sex toys to reach clitoral orgasm
If there is already tongue, fingers, lips, penis and all the anatomical knowledge, why buy a sex toy for the clitoris? Simply because it’s like having everything said before, for the better. The vibrations, pulsations or suctions, depending on the toy, draw blood to the erogenous zone much faster, making it aroused sooner, if the libido is a little low, or bringing it to orgasm sooner, if it is already aroused and lubricated of his own. To masturbate then it is objectively much more comfortable: do you want to let him do everything while you are free to fantasize, relax and enjoy? There is no comparison with your fingers, come on.
Your favorite clitoral sex toys
We asked our clitoris goddesses to tell us about their relationship with the clitus and the survey revealed that: 60% of our users own a clitoral toy which in most cases is directly responsible for their orgasms. Partners, don’t fear the toy, integrate it! Do like 20% of our users who put the toy in their partner’s hand during sex and you will see orgasms blossom like spring flowers. Playing for a special place on the clitus are the clitoral sucker, who however wins with 35% of the preferences and the rabbit, the bunny of love: considering that 50% of our users have at least two toys each, you have already figured out who is at the top of the shopping list. But to follow are valid toys such as the Wand and mini clitoral vibrators. If you already have a tingle between your legs, here are our top 5 for reviews, purchases, efficiency.